I think most of my friends are talkative, kind, funny, dependable, and make an effort on what she/ he decides to do. The first impressions i make toward people are usually wrong. For example, one of my friend who was in same juku last summer, she looked scary at first impression. But as i knew about her, she was really kind and friendly.
I care boyfriend's aspect a bit, but mostly i agree with Yuri. How people look aren't that important. If i make friends or boyfriend by how they look, the relationships won't last long.