You can call me a sloth. Its because I've been depressed for the past few days. There's that ferocious animal inside me
RAAAAWWRR!! <3
I just need to wake that aggressive animal up.
I'm just going to start off with my opinion on marriage
For the past week I've been reading
"The M Word"
I actually bought this book 1 or 2 years ago. I never got around to reading it.
I thought it would be nice to read before I posted my take on what constitutes a "healthy" marriage and get some reference.
I read the book half way but it was just fancy writing and I wasn't digging it at all. I needed to start on my book-report book so I quit reading it and will just write my take on marriage.
I personally have never been in a relationship (in fact when I'm thriving for someone, a part of me already knows its not going to happen no matter how hard I try, I guess I can say "I'm used to being single". ) so this is coming out of nowhere, but I see marriage as the ultimate goal, where as dating is just finding the right candidate. Then you move on to true relationships where you dig further and see if this person is great for you.
The problem with me is that I'm not sure if I would enjoy the contrast like how Dr. Armstrong does where he is different from his wife.
But at the same time I think it would we like polishing a hard shell with my significant other if I were to go out with/marry a clone. We would think exactly the same, feel safe and grow up to be one of those self-righteous couples on the block where they feel they are right in every way. (which by the way wouldn't be that bad because you don't have to question your self. You're always right, you have someone to agree with you, you feel safe and powerful...right?)
Then comes the benefits.
When people bring up the issue about the birth rate going down, its just pointless.
Gay people are gay, not straight. They want to marry the SAME gender. They WON'T have children because they simply just can't. Just because you ban gay marriage, doesn't mean all of a sudden all the gays are going to say "I guess I'll get married to the opposite gender then..." Instead they will just continue living together with their gay partner and hope to be legally married. They just wont be able to make medical decisions for they're partners etc etc. So thats why I think, why not?
Then I just have to bring up the 2009 Miss USA video
Anyone who has a brain would find her answer contradicting.
The question was asking her if she thinks other states should legalize same sex marriage -> in other words there are 46 states that do not legalize gay marriage. This dumb plastic faced girl says something along the lines of "It is great that we live in a country where we can choose blah blah blah"
nuh uh girl, you need to shut it and listen.
WE CAN'T CHOOSE. GAYS DO NOT HAVE A CHOICE.
THAT IS NOT WHAT DEMOCRACY IS ALL ABOUT.
besides.... beauty pageants are all about looks. Why do they even bother to ask politically challenged questions in the first place? I personally think beauty pageants is just a pile of sand bags.
I mean, everyone remember this girl?
Alicia is the only dumb girl who I actually like. (only because I feel happy for who I am...)
"sparkle!"
oh I forgot to write about tribes..... maybe 2 or 3 hours later Ill post again.
